Contradictions

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A slight contraction to having a garden for wildlife (that's the future plan)...is having a Cat but we love our little feline friends especially when we can rescue one from the Cats Protection League and provide it with a safe and loving home.  

Buffy ready to pounce (on moth probably)! 
Welcome the newest addition to the family Buffy, named after the fabulous Buffy Summers. 

Ironically Buffy isn't anything like Buffy the Vampire Slayer and is a quiet timid little thing that loves her own space usually in a room by herself upstairs.  She is very spoilt and has her very own double bed in one of the spare bedrooms - occasionally kicked out when we have guests.  

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